Are you tired of the relationship - or just tired?

He’s sitting next to you. You are too. But it feels like there are miles between you. No yelling, no fighting. But no laughing like before either. You feel exhausted. And a question keeps pounding in your head: Is this the end? Or just a break?

When the euphoria fades

Being in love is a cocktail of hormones, inspiration, and wild optimism. We stop noticing alarms, hunger, and imperfections. But as soon as that “honeymoon phase” wears off, reality sets in. And it’s not always pretty.

You look at him and wonder: Are we really right for each other? Or was it just a beautiful moment? But don’t rush to close the chapter. Maybe you’re not tired of him — you’re tired of the expectations, the pace, the constant effort to be the perfect couple.

It’s okay to want a pause

Your mind needs a break. From emotions, planning the future, playing the role of “the perfect woman” who has everything under control. Sometimes you just want to be yourself — in a stretched-out tee, without a forced smile.

It’s important to ask yourself: Do you want to walk away from him — or just back to yourself?

Conflicts aren’t enemies, they’re signs of growth

Do you argue? Congratulations. That means you’re real. But if the fights keep going in circles like a broken record — that’s a sign you’re avoiding something. Talk. Deeply. Without blame or sarcasm. Adjusting to each other is part of the journey. Not glamorous, but honest.

If you have nothing to talk about — that’s worrying

When there’s more silence than conversation between you, it’s time to ask: Do we really know each other? And do we want to keep getting to know each other? Because true intimacy isn’t just about touch — it’s about words. Without them, everything becomes a pretty shell, empty inside.

Sometimes it’s not even about him

You’re not sad because of him — you’re just sad. It might be seasonal apathy, overload, anxiety. In that state, anyone nearby can get on your nerves. Even the most loving person.